That Will Teach Me

Last post I wrote about vague worries and how I shouldn't let them spoil good days. This week I realized how important that is. Jamie had a week with events that made me rethink many decisions of the last six months. How do you advise an adult child who refuses to agree that your ideas would probably have worked out best...until after lots of time and $$ has been spent on the plan he pushed through, which looks like it's not going to work? I've reached the bottom of my $$ (and gone even deeper than that) so at least asking for more money for another plan isn't an option for Jamie. I am very sad and worried about a real problem (which was a real problem last week when I wrote the blog, but I didn't know it). What next?